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March 23, 2006


To Train Up A Child - by Michael & Debi Pearl

It appears that there is a fierce attempt by fellow homeschoolers to boycott all those who support Michael and Debi Pearl for writing the book “To Train Up a Child,” claiming that they advocate child-abuse. Of course these claims are absolutely absurd, and it is merely a reflection of foolish people who despise wisdom and discipline.

I have recently been under attack by some fellow homeschoolers (including a hardened lesbian) for supporting the Pearls and their extraordinary ministry => NO GREATER JOY

Apparently, O’DonnellWeb and pals are all fired up and offended over what I had to say about training children - Praise the Lord! Check out what all the buzz is about from my comment on Phat Mommy and find out why everyone got so offended and persecuted me because I support the Pearls.

Honestly, I was extremely surprised by how many homeschoolers despise Michael and Debi Pearl for writing the book "To Train Up a Child." For some reason, I was under the foolish assumption that the Pearls were some kind of Spiritual Giants within the homeschooling community. Personally, I am grateful for their wisdom and I was extremely blessed by their teachings. Reading that book revolutionized the way we train our three children, and the fruit of our efforts became evident almost immediately.

Any parent with an emotional maturity level higher than the average thirteen-year-old can, with a proper vision and knowledge of the Pearl’s techniques, have happy obedient children. It is a must-read for all parents who want to truly experience the rewards of parenthood, and have children who are delightful, joyful and blessings from the Lord.

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." ~ Proverbs 22:6

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  1. Beth makes a valid point. Dani, how did we persecute you? Does it really hurt so to have your abuse shown to the world? How do you think your kids feel knowing that obedience is so important that you would beat them to make them obey? That's the real persecution. The Pearls advocate persecution of children with the vilest of physical torture. Yet you feel saddened by words? Please stop beating children. It's really that simple. Just stop beating kids.

  2. Dear Idiot - your opinions about the Pearls are laughable and without merit. What people were offended by were the nasty names you called me. Funny, coming from an ex dyke such as yourself.


    See the first comment.

  3. Thanks for the links Tulipgirl, I will definitely check them out.

    Actually Beth the definition of persecute is this: "To oppress or harass with ill-treatment, especially because of race, religion or beliefs."

    And Samuel, for cryin' out loud - I don't beat my kids!!! Like I said earlier, any parent with an emotional maturity level higher than the average thirteen-year-old can, with a proper vision and knowledge of the Pearl’s techniques, will see the wisdom in it and have happy obedient children.

    Considering that the Pearls have been married for over 35 years, raised 5 healthy children who are all grown adults and happily married, it is a bit fallacious to accuse them of child abuse, especially since they have never been charged with such a crime. The Pearls also have several grandchildren and none of their family members demonstrate signs of abuse. Clearly the Pearls have some wisdom in the area of parenting that we all can learn from. Thousands of parents have testified, including me to the amazing results of these profoundly simple techniques found in their book. Parents should actually read it with an open mind and apply these techniques before discrediting and slandering it.

    Once we used simple training techniques, the stress was gone and our children have a strong desire to make us happy in all that they do. Our children are obedient, loving, joyful, helpful, secure and confident in who they are. They don’t throw tantrums or hissy-fits, talk back or whine and complain in order to manipulate the situation, and they listen and obey. When we do discipline them, they demonstrate true repentance, and they love us even more for it! Unlike most parents in modern America, we actually enjoy being with our children and they bring love, joy, peace and laughter into our home.

    Doc - since you are a self-proclaimed lesbian, why would you be offended by me calling you one? I've been called a right-wing, religious nut, racist, fundamental, tattooed freak, bible thumper, former dyke, and a homo-phobe, and that doesn't offend me at all (except I'm not racist). I am confident in my lifestyle, but I can see why you are not.

    Oh, and I'm not like some cowards (Phat Mommy & ODonnell) who have to delete every little offensive word or forbid my comments all together, so you are free to leave all the nasty words you want. Obviously if I did delete them, I would not have any comments to post.

    Most people don't read my blog because they like it, they read it cause they despise it, yet they keep coming back for more.

  4. Berating my friends, even those I've never met in real life, will not be tolerated on my blog. It has nothing to to do with your whacked out opinions. It's your offensive and vile personality that got you banned.

  5. COD -

    Your latest post is titled “The Child Beaters Fight Back” with a link to my blog saying: “At least Dani is consistent.” Yet you ban me from posting a comment on your blog.

    You accuse me of “berating” your friends while they all dish out the same venom to me.

    Besides being accused of beating my children several times, called an "idiot", told my "opinions about the Pearls are laughable and without merit." I was also told that "beating your child is perverted." Which it is, and I don’t beat my kids.

    Of course these statements came from a lesbian homeschooling mom in response to my comment to her saying:
    "You really should not be giving advice on how to raise children since your children are fatherless and you live a perverted lifestyle." Then later sarcastically saying, "It would be much better to have a hardened dyke for a mother."

    Of course your “friends” continued demonstrating their offensive and vile personalities towards me without any restrain:

    "What's really scary is that there are people like Dani living right next door to most of us."

    "I prefer the parenting advice of a Godless lesbian over an idiot helpmeet…Maybe she is considering becoming a Godless lesbian?"

    "I believe this is where someone writes 'run along and be submissive to your husband'"

    "Christ, Dani. Aren't you supposed to be submitting or in church or something?"

    "Now, grab your little knee protectors and kneel before your husband."

    "I'd like to feed her to a lion, but I can't support wanton cruelty to animals."


  6. My blog is not a public square. I'm under no obligation to provide equal access. I'd rather the level of discourse be higher - but the first comment you ever left on my blog referred to me as wicked, and we have been stuck operating at your level ever since. The converesation at Phat Mommy went downhill went you went off on your now deleted lesbian rant.

    You are getting exctly the conversation you wanted. Quit bitching.

  7. Hey, hey, hey!!! Dani, why don't you just cease all the claptrap about the Pearls knowing more about child-rearing than lesbos who want other lesbos' kids to call them "daddy." I have incontrovertible evidence supporting the reality that lesbos - what you described as "hardened bull-dykes," Dani - possess vastly superior parenting skills to that of the Pearls and other severely antiquated, evolutionary inferior "mother/father" units. In fact, the socially vetted "Better-call-me-daddy-or-I'll-kill-you-in-front-of-your-mother," lesbo-sadomasochistic approach to parenting is clearly becoming more and more popular within circles of the beautiful, tolerant and loving folk all over the world. Read for yourself, Dani, and perhaps you'll learn a thing or two before you throw irresponsible comments around as if they had no consequences:

    Slain because he refused to call his mother's lesbian lover `Daddy'
    March 23, 2006
    By Baldwin Ndaba, Star Reporter

    "Four-year-old Jandre Botha disobeyed an order to call his mother's lesbian lover 'Daddy.'

    "So the lover, Engeline de Nysschen (33), viciously assaulted Jandre while demanding that he must call her 'Daddy.'

    "Jandre died from his injuries, which trauma expert Professor Mohammed Dada said were similar to those of a person who had fallen from a double-storey building.

    "Yesterday Vereeniging Regional Court magistrate Rita Willemse found De Nysschen and the mother, Hanelie Botha (31) - who did nothing to protect her child - guilty of murder.

    "Jandre's father, Jan Botha, sat in court holding the hands of his fiancée, Yolanda Deysel, and listened attentively to Willemse, who, in her judgment, accepted evidence that among the reasons that led to Jandre's brutal ordeal was his refusal to call De Nysschen 'Daddy.'

    "The court had heard evidence from Lydia Nkomo and her daughter Aletta Lesiba, who worked for the couple in their tuckshop, that De Nysschen had viciously assaulted Jandre while demanding that he must call her 'Daddy.'

    "Both testified that while Jandre was assaulted, his mother failed to intervene or protect him. Evidence showed he had sustained horrific injuries, including a fractured skull and brain damage, as well as broken legs, collarbone, hands and pelvis.

    "Delivering judgment, Willemse acknowledged there was no substantial evidence linking Hanelie Botha to the assaults, but said she was equally guilty of murder for failing in her legal duty to protect her child against abuse and violation.

    "The court found she had lied to Dr Elna Gibson, one of the medical doctors who treated Jandre, by saying the boy got his injuries after he had slipped in the bath.

    "The court ruled that she had lied to protect De Nysschen. The doctors who had examined Jandre dismissed the pair's version that he had slipped in the bath. They said excessive force was required to inflict the kind of fatal injuries sustained by Jandre.

    "Convicting the two, Willemse dismissed their version and said there was substantial medical evidence before her about the nature of the injuries suffered by Jandre.

    "'I accept the evidence of the medical personnel who are experts in their fields. There were substantial documents placed before me. Most of them have medical experience which spans over a period of 15 years.

    "'All of them have dismissed the version of the accused and were unanimous that the deceased's injuries were inflicted over a period of time.

    "'It is unthinkable that the mother of the child could not have known about these fatal injuries. The deceased also had broken legs, and his mother should have been aware of this.'

    "The magistrate criticised Botha for failing to report Jandre's abuse at the hands of her lover to the social workers monitoring Jandre's progress, after she had gained custody of him during a lengthy court battle with her ex-husband. She also failed to report the abuse to her ex-husband.

    "The boy's father became aware of Jandre's abuse only on the day of his death, June 12 2003. De Nysschen contacted him and said Jandre had fallen earlier in the day and had died.

    W"illemse criticised Botha's fitness to be a mother, saying her parents later approached her ex-husband and gave him financial help to fight for the custody of his child.

    "Rebuking Botha, Willemse said: 'Hanelie was not helpless. She was well aware of Engeline's violent outburst.

    "'She could have called the child's father for help but she failed to do so. She did nothing to protect her own child.'

    "The magistrate labelled Engeline a liar and a hopeless witness who had contradicted herself in testimony.'

    "Botha and De Nysschen were further convicted of assault with intent to do grievous bodily harm and child neglect for failing to provide or seek treatment for Jandre's limb fractures. The case was postponed until June 26 for a pre-sentencing report."

    Well, there you have it, Dani, proof of what goes on with the real loving people of this world, proof that hardened bull-dykes everywhere can take blunt objects to children's skulls, legs, collarbones, hands and pelvises better than any Pearl could've ever dreamed!

    And you thought bull-dykes couldn't be real men like the sissy in the post above this one whose feelings you hurt - HAH! You did call them "bull-dykes," didn't you?

  8. Dani,

    Take a step back for a moment. I just read your posts over at Phat Mommy. Reread them. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who is not a Believer.

    You have a heart for God, but you're letting the enemy take hold of your responses. We can disagree on this all day. However, you are hurting your Creator in the eyes of these people.

    Just take a breather. Throw some love back on the fire. It can be done. When things get this heated, proceed with caution and lots of wisdom.

    Just one sister to another. Spanker or no-spanker ... I know you want to be a light.

  9. I don't know about all the lesbian stuff other commentors are talking about but as far as the pearls go I strongly disagree with their theology. Micheal Pearl teaches a pelagian view of sin, your children are not sinners, and "training" (why that would be needed in sinless beings I don't know) is much like training animals. Also Pearl's teachings on age of accountablility have no scriptural merit. These are just humanistic philosophies being imposed into Christianity.


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